I Didn't Think I Deserved Better

One of the most common questions I get is why I married, or dated, the men I did.

The answer is actually VERY simple.

I didn't think I deserved better.

Each time, I felt like this was as good as it was going to get for me.

They showed me even the slightest amount of validation, and that was it.

I literally didn't think I deserved better.

I didn't know that I had worth.

I literally DID NOT know I had worth.

Now I do.

And the game has changed.

In fact, it isn't even a game anymore.

It is me being in the flow, going with the flow, and letting things come to me.

It is me fully trusting in my worth and in God's timing.

It is me feeling okay about what is.

Once we KNOW our worth, from Whom it comes, and that it is unchangeable...

Our choices change.

Our understanding changes.

We change.