Heidi Rae Coaching - Party In The Process

Babes!!

I don't know about you, but I find so much comfort in the word, "process." We are ALL in the process... on the journey... strapped into our training wheels. If we had all the answers and did all the things, there would be no purpose left in us being here.

Everyone's process is different. Everyone's process is necessary. Everyone's process is HARD. Everyone's process brings to light our purpose. The party is in the process!

I got married. I got divorced. I got married again. I got divorced again. I was cheated on. I was cheated on lots and lots. I was abused. I was in toxic relationships over and over again. I learned that my worth is infinite. It is not based on those experiences. I learned that I can trust my gut instinct. I learned that I can have boundaries and I can feel great about that boundaries. I learned that it's my job to make myself happy.

I am a single mom. I have had to work multiple jobs at the same time for a very long time to support us. My kids have had 30 operations. I learned that I can multi-task like a boss. I learned that my heart is big enough to love and nurture and care for my babies. I learned that I can be self-reliant.

I had a stroke. I was paralyzed, head to toe, on my left side. I had to poop in a bed pan. I could not wipe my own butt. I learned to roll over. I learned to sit up. I learned to walk, then to squat, then to climb stairs, then to drive, then to go back to work.

Through each and every process, I have learned compassion, empathy, strength, self-love, discipline, and JOY. I have learned that I am responsible for my own happiness. I have learned what I will and will not accept in my life. I have learned to do better and be better.

Yes, it normally takes me a WHOLE LOT of lessons in my process to get the message. But, it's a process. Process: "A SERIES of actions or steps taken in order to achieve a particular end."

The party is in the process. The process is unending. The process is necessary. Embrace the process!