Boundaries

Boundaries are HARD.

They are hard to set, especially when you have a process addiction such as validation.

I don't want people to dislike me or think less of me.

Well, I used to feel that way at least.

Lately, I am getting better at realizing the value in boundaries and that it does not matter what other people think of me.

It doesn't matter.

However, when it comes to events or get-togethers I struggle still with setting boundaries and sticking to them.

I have to remind myself how it will make me feel to be in a situation that is actually not healthy.

So, boundaries.