Tuesday, October 13, 2020

Babe

Mike has been working with me on self-love.
I think that we all have our seasons where self-love is hard to find and harder to keep up.
It is SO easy in this world of a whole lot of fake to not compare ourselves to others' bests.
Filters galore.
Surgery and procedures galore.
Comparison is one of the main tools of the adversary, I am sure of it.

Saturday morning, I headed to the gym.
Mike was finishing things up at home before he and Braxton headed out for the day to help his friend move.
I really love our gym.
It is very difficult to feel bad about yourself there...
And that's saying something for a gym!
There is just a great feeling of acceptance and motivation and love there.

Girls rooting for girls.
Women rooting for women.
Hugs and high fives and laughter and smiles all around.
One particular lady - Renata - is the epitome of beautiful and badass and fierce and athletic.
I don't know her know her.
We are "FB friend."
And we always smile at one another at the gym.
While I was stretching, she was doing one-legged lunges - as you do...
Well, I don't but others do.
She walked up in her deep accent and said, "You are looking amazing! Your arms. Your body."
I about died of laughter.
Literally.
Belly laughing.
Like, this girl cannot be for real right now.
I said, "Oh my goodness. You are too kind. I feel disgusting, actually. But you. You are over here doing weighted one-legged lunges like a boss! While I am in child's pose for a good 20 minutes."
She was being so sincere.
She meant it.
And I did too.

So when I left the gym, I found a damn filter.
And I took the damn picture.
Not for anyone but me.
To remind my damn self that I really am a babe.
WE ALL ARE.

And when we love ourselves, it shows.


 

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