Not an Option

Learning.

Growing.

Developing.

This quote right here was nonsense to me until about two years ago.

When the boys and I learned about Michael's cheating and dishonesty, my mind was made up immediately.

This was WEIRD for me... very out of character.

My sisters asked my boys if they thought Michael and I would work things out.

Jackson said immediately, "Did you see my mom? She's done. I've never seen her like that."

We are not options.

We are not backup plans.

We are not a well if she doesn't work out then I have her.

We are not there for the chase and once caught, it's off to the next poor, unfortunate soul.

We are daughter of GOD.

We are worthy of love and loyalty and devotion and adoration.

And, PS, so are men.

Women are just as guilty of being dishonest, less-than-loyal, disrespectful, and less than loving to men as well!

Recently I had a conversation that basically was this quote in my words.

I AM NOT AN OPTION.

I AM NOT A BACKUP PLAN.

Bye.

Boundaries include having respect for ourselves and our divine nature.