This is such an important lesson for all people to learn, and to actively live by.
There is someone in my life who has always shown me who they are.
They are not dependable.
Unreliable.
What they say and what they do are not in alignment.
I still care about them.
However, I no longer make time for them.
Recently, they made the comment that I must be so upset with them because they are constantly letting me down.
I responded truthfully:
"Nope! You have always shown me who you are. If I was upset or angry, that's on me."
And that is a fact.
If someone shows you who they are and who they are upsets you, you need to decide what YOU are going to do.
If you choose to allow them to still be in your life, their behavior can no longer upset you.
You chose to have them in your life!
That's on you!
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